In my first post, I listed the 3 biggest lessons I learned about creating a new chapter in my life. For me, the first of these was begin with the end in mind. I have borrowed these words from Stephen R Covey’s definitive work “The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People”.
Begin with the end in mind is based on the principle that everything is created twice. First, there is a mental creation. Second, there is a physical creation.
For Covey, “Begin with the end in mind” is habit two of seven. For me, it jumps to Number 1 – let me tell you why:
Towards the end of my corporate career (and I now believe that the timing was very significant), I was introduced to “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne. If you haven’t read the book, listened to the recording or seen the film, then I have to tell you that The Secret is a page-turner …
In summary, Byrne identifies three lessons:
1. The Law Of Attraction is one of the most prevalent Laws in the world.
2. In order to usefully utilise The Law Of Attraction, you need to think about what you want rather than about what you don’t want.
3. The Law Of Attraction has three steps – asking, believing and receiving.
It is the POWER of The Law Of Attraction that gives begin with the end in mind top billing for me.
Here is how it’s power revealed itself to me. I’ve always been a positive kinda gal. But, one thing that used to to throw my day out was over-sleeping when I was caring for my Mum. This was not unusual as Mum would turn night into day and finally settle just a few hours before I was to get up. My pattern then was, wake up, drag myself out of bed, decide my day was doomed and live a day that plunged from disaster to disaster.
Finally, the penny dropped … I was having a rubbish day because I told myself I’d have a rubbish day …
So now as I leap out of bed each day – whatever time I wake up – I create a picture of success as to how the day will unfold.
And you know what, life is pretty darn good …
Then, another penny dropped. If I can create a day by design, I CAN CREATE A LIFE BY DESIGN. So, begin with the end in mind has to be my Number 1.
There are a couple of tools I use for life-designing. One is my vision board and one is writing about my perfect day as an end of year ritual.
If you would like to find out how I use these tools with my Team to help them develop lives they love living, then please drop me a comment below.